Mathew 14:27 But Jesus immediately said to them: Take courage! I have been verbally and mentally abused even physically too. 8. Tried to isolate me from my family and friends! I am filled with frustration and anger at the person who hurt me. Im at a point where I just want to give in just walk out,but for some reason I just cant.I need help please.can someone give me advice on how to get out. Amen. How long will You look the other way? Amen. Help me find peace in my relationships again. In Jesus name, Amen. 20 years. In their place, leave Your perfect love. I am working to recover, but it takes time. You know that I have been hurt and treated like I do not have worth. Amen. I will try to stay close to Your Sacred Heart through all of this. Am 27 year old unmarried girl trapped in an long distance abusive and blackmailing relationship.. Amen. Speak to me and let Your words light the way for my next step. I am not able to get out of it. Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you. Almighty and Everlasting God, You know how I have painfully endured several years of verbal, emotional, and physical abuse in my marriage. And your protection to get out of it ,sorround them with your love and care lord please open up there eyes so they can seeThat love is not abbusive.amen. Psalm 27:10 says, For my father and my mother have forsaken me, but the Lord will take me in. Call on Jesus to help these children feel loved and cared for, in a tangible way. Here are 5 prayers for people suffering under the weight of emotional abuse: 1. An article by Mary Yerkes on Focus on the Family explains, emotional abuse controls, intimidates, subjugates, demeans, punishes, or isolates another person without leaving bruises, but causes degradation, humiliation, or fear. Examples include yelling, screaming, and name-calling but also refusing to be pleased with anything, isolating an individual from family and friends, and invalidating anothers thoughts and feelings.. Since hes been home he takes and abuses medications that caused him to be high and not sleep for days at a time. In Jesus name. Help me to stop loving him more than I love myself and for me to move forward onto the path you have for me. Teach me to rebuild the soft parts of me that were damaged and hardened by the abuse. If you have been injured, you will want to keep photos of the abuse as well as copies of any police reports. You saw me in my darkest hour and saved from an abusive man. As whenever I try to, this guy finds me out in whichever location I am. Help me find the strength to believe in myself and my value again. Worse he treats me like his own personal porn star. Please help my friend heal from the abuse. I know you are my shield. Bless me with health and healing. Let them know that I am here for them. I pray in Christ's powerful name, Amen. I dont want to forgive for what has happened. Help him to see You in me. When I feel these this way help me to remember, Do not fear, for I have redeemed you; I have summoned you by name; you are mine (Isaiah 43:1b, NIV). They will need help to process the pain they have suffered. Help me to love me the way I deserve to be loved. Forever? If you really loved Jesus, you would stay no matter what. If you were stronger, this person wouldnt abuse you. You left because you are self-serving.. Let me have grace for my mistakes. I am distraught that she has to endure this day after day. But unfortunately, most people dont realize how difficult it can be to identify abuse, get the needed support, and decide how to respond when were still in the thick of it. Matthew 5:32. Amen. 14. Chief of the Philippine National Police, retirement | 297K views, 1.1K likes, 812 loves, 1K comments, 873 shares, Facebook Watch Videos from Radio Television Malacaang - RTVM: President Ferdinand R.. In Jesus name. I cannot see the way forward, so please guide me down this unknown path. Fortify their mind, so they may feel more hope and strength. Help me overcome the weight of anxiety and depression that is crushing me right now, both for myself and also so that You can continue to use me for Kingdom work. Healing is possible, though, and you will feel stronger in time. 6. My husband will never change he was a drug addict for 15 years on heroin and now he abuses medications. Thessalonians 5:20. Give her the strength to leave him. In Jesus name, I pray. Lord please help me to be strong please help me out of an abusive relationship. I am scared of what my abuser will do if I try to leave. I feel useless, worthless, and stupid. In Your Name, I pray. Learning to embrace this verse and your worth in Christ after emotional oppression might seem impossible, so thank Him even now for what He is going to do, then live out the promises of Jesus as though they are already real to you. Take stock of how you feel. How do I heal from this grief? Psalm 56:3-4 When I am afraid, I will trust in you. Merciful God, we give you thanks for your gift of strength and life and especially for the gift of your Son, Jesus Christ, through whom we have health and salvation. Send them angels to help them work through these feelings. Hear my prayer and acknowledge my pleading. How do I let go of these feelings? In Jesus name, Amen. There is no doubt our heavenly father the Lord God listens to our prayer. Have your prayer for emotional abuse submitted all over the world: Then, you will call on me and come and pray to me, and I will listen to you. In Jesus name. No one wants to have to admit they're living in an abusive home or being an abusive person. Thank you Jesus, thank you Jesus, I am healed and I am on the watch for how you are going to help me.. AMEN, Hii. I get frustrated when I would like to move on. I am learning that you are always there, but sin is present in the world. Right now, they are unable to feel the love they deserve. Prayer to Get Out of Abusive Marriage. Thank you my Lord for hearing me the first time and for your love and protection. I pray You will grant me the grace to leave and never to look back. But our hope lies in the One who does see. Amen. Dear Holy God, I have endured an egoist alcoholic who is also very violent, abusive, and manipulative. Amen. 5. Prayer to Walk Out of a Violent Relationship. I need prayers to get well so I can get strong and walk away from this marriage. Give me the courage to leave an unsafe relationship. Are You even here? God you said if I ask in your name you will do it. Dear God,Please help my friend who is suffering in an abusive relationship.I pray that you give him the strength, courage and resources to be able to leave and to protect his child.Allow others to come into their lives to help them.I pray for healing and the softening of anger of the childs mother.In Your nameAmen. Show me how to escape this situation. Here are 8 prayers to help you get started: 1. Father, give my soul peace and strength. Please somebody pray for me.. . The harsh words stop for weeks and I think hes truly changed, but then it comes back worse than ever before. Let me know that this pain can go away. Amen. Please take away all the pain and hurt in my heart. There are so many complicated layers and it is just overwhelming to think about it. Help me know when my friends are suffering, so that I may intervene and help them. I want her to get out of the relationship immediately, but of course its not that easy. Help (name) to stop his emotional abuse. I'm Emily Rogers! Abuse can feel like a nightmare that will never end. Amen. The healing process takes time, but Jesus always keeps His word, and His word IS love. I feel broken and abandoned, called demeaning names countless times by my hubby who is cruel down to his soul. Prayers For Emotional Abuse For Healing The Broken Relationship Lord, Please heal my marriage. Stand firm, then, and do not let yourselves be burdened again by a yoke of slavery. God will empower you. But all I have ever gotten are insults and humiliations. But to be treated with the love of Christ that they would die for us. I have suffered deep emotional wounds, and I need You to intervene. This dress is interfering in my recovery. Remind me of who I am and the worth that I have. I am afraid to leave. Im super excited youre here! Help me to remember that I am a daughter of the King. Please wrap me in your loving arms and give me the courage and protection I need each day. If I still disagree with him he gets violent on me and starts damaging furniture. It feels like You have abandoned too. Im so embarrassed to be around people with (Name) because everything just ends so terribly. You are all-powerful, and You know each of us by name. I want God to guide me in the right path, please help me father . Help (name) to stop his physical abuse. You are my refuge and my hiding place. Dear Father in Heaven, I humbly request that You replace all the overwhelming negative emotions and thoughts in my heart with Your peace and calm. Pray that God will be with them in their confusion and pain. and you will know the truth, and the truth will make you free. Father, please save me from this abuse. Father, I am afraid to leave, but I know this situation is not God-honoring. I have given you 8 prayers for abusive relationships, but feel free to customize them to your specific situation. Amen. Likewise, husbands, live with your wives in an understanding way, showing honor to the woman as the weaker vessel, since they are heirs with you of the grace of life, so that your prayers may not be hindered. Please soften it and mold it to look more like Yours. 9. Please soften it and mold it to look more like Yours. Almighty God, I ask that You uproot this unrequited love that has kept me emotionally captive from my poor heart. seems like d only way to escape is death. You can see everything. Have mercy, oh Lord, on your dear daughters and rescue us quickly for this is not your plan for our lives to be emotionally and physically abused by our husbands. In order to call for justice, we must first deepen our respect for the dignity of every human life. Remind me that this pain is only temporary and that tomorrow I can have a brighter day. I just worry for her mental and physical health. (Name) is controlling, tries to frighten me, and is isolating me from everyone I love. But if you do not forgive others their sins, your Father will not forgive your sins. (Matthew 6:14-15), That is nothing like what the world says. As a Shepherd of Peace, He has the power to heal those who have been hurt in body, mind, and spirit by those who betrayed the trust placed in them. Help him to desire to live a Christian life. Its terrifying for me to watch/hear. Its important that we ask God to enlighten victims and provide them with wisdom to see when things are not right within their relationships. Have an escape route in mind to get out of the house quickly if your partner becomes violent. My personality is so different my husband,,,,, I cant tell you how much I regret marrying him or even meeting him. I pray that You will send kind people into my life to help me find support. Spend Time Listening. Pray that God will heal, forgive and show these victims that, as a person, they deserve to be respected, feel safe and valued. We ask You to free those living with abuse physically, mentally or spiritually, from their oppression, so that they may walk in peace and enjoy a life full of Your blessings. Please give me the courage to take prompt and decisive action, if needed, to ensure my safety and well-being. I am in counseling and has had my son in counseling and about to place him back in because his pediatrician notice that he seems unhappy. Physical, verbal, emotional, and sexual abuse can happen in any relationship. In Your Name I pray. 5. Forever? In Jesus name, Amen. How to leave an abusive relationship and why it's so hard. People may encourage me to leave the abuse or to stay, but none of them can walk this road for me. So Im asking from the deepest part of my broken heart that You be merciful to me, Lord, and save me. He accuses me of putting him in prison where he spent 30 days and since hes been home hes been nothing but abusive to me because hes blaming me for him going to prison. 8. Let my brain and body know that I can be safe again. Remember, God loves you. O Lord, You are the One who can make things right! Surely,Lord, you bless the righteous; you surround them with your favor as with a shield (Psalm 5:11-12, NIV). Support Her Decisions. O Merciful and Loving God, I have been used and abused, I need You to show me that You havent forgotten or abandoned me by getting me out of this harsh relationship. Please pray for me as I have a very selfish, arrogant and violent husband. Thank You. Help him to see You in me. He is with you and will be with you every step. I too have prayed for God to remove him from life that he will pack up and leave. that those who love your name may rejoice in you. O God, the thought of taking my life has always played in my head. God hates abuse. Prayers. Thank You for listening to me and for lavishing me with Your love and protection. Teaching God, we pray that You open our ears, our eyes, and our hearts to be more aware, outreaching, and supportive to people in abusive situations, so that they wont feel alone and know that someone cares. I end up with for hematoma strokes and was rushed to the Mayo Clinic in Rochester Minnesota for emergency brain surgery which I did survive. I offer this prayer in Jesus Christs name, Amen. Prayer to Walk Out of An Abusive Marriage. Please send angels to help me and protect me as I get away from this abuse. Even though it may not seem like it, the Lord is walking with you. Grant me the grace to find salvation both in this life from this abuse and in the next life. Please wrap me in your loving arms and give me the courage and protection I need each day. Help me recognize which feelings are coming through the guidance of Your holy spirit and which feelings come from my fears and anxieties. How long will You look the other way? Lord, I come to you broken. God, YOU are able to do abundantly and exceedingly above all that I can ask or think. It can include sexual, emotional, and physical abuse, and may involve controlling also. Leaving an abusive relationship Leaving an abusive relationship No one should feel unsafe. i have been woken up many times in the middle of the night and I will start praying for hours for Jesus to help me and get us out of this demeaning and degrading house of horror ! O Gracious God, I have prayed that hed turn a new leaf for years now, but that hasnt happened. Amen. Christ can heal all wounds, including those of the heart, and I pray that You will fortify me. But I say to you that everyone who divorces his wife, except on the ground of sexual immorality, makes her commit adultery, and whoever marries a divorced woman commits adultery. Satan would love for the turmoil of emotional abuse to cut you off from the emotional rewards of relationship with God. Thank You because I know You will grant my request in Jesus name, I pray. Please take away my fear of the future and replace it with Your love. Please hurry! A person might suffer the effects of abuse and no one will know. Help me not rush the process. He complains that I dont respect him simply because he sees his cousins wife waiting on his cousin hand and foot. Take them away. Isaiah 41:10 says do not fear, for I am with you; do not be dismayed, for I am your God. Candice Lucey is a writer and counsellor living in beautiful BC, Canada with her family. Father, show me how to forgive. Jesus, I need Your help to find mental peace again. 1 Timothy 3:2 An overseer, then, must be above reproach, the husband of one wife, temperate, prudent, respectable, hospitable, able to teach. You're a survivor, and help is readily . This nonphysical behavior or attitude is seen in relationships between friends, siblings, parents and children, spouses, and co-workers. Help my unbelief! Thank You for this prayer request that Im awaiting answers to. I stop attending his church. Of course, steeling yourself to leave is one thing. Also pray that these children will not look for love in all the wrong places, in a fruitless attempt to fill a God-sized void. For I hold you by your right handI, the LORD your God. 11. Thank You, dear Lord, because I know this unfavorable situation wont last forever. My husband is a horrible mean person who only cares about himself. Help them escape this treatment. Naturally, you want to intervene and put an end to the relationship. - Psalm 13:1 NLT Lord, I feel so forgotten and unseen. Defend and rescue me, just as You rescued Your people from Pharaoh's oppression. I feel just as confused when I think about what to do next. Give us the courage and Your strength to stand against violence inflicted upon Your precious people. You are the God who saves. Help Her Rekindle Friendships. And I say to you, Dont be afraid. When you make the decision to leave your partner, stop any form of communication with them unless you have children and need to co-parent. You also need to tell yourself that you can survive without your mate and strengthen your resolve not to take your partner back even if they beg, says Engel. If you have kids, tell them the plan. How Can I Recognize and Understand the Holy Spirit Better? 2. I have a son who has witnessed a negligent abusive father for most of his childhood, he is now in his teens and I know this situation has had an impact him. You are watching when my abuser is harsh with me and hurts me. Prayer to End a Hurtful Relationship. Take away your car keys or medications, try to control where you go and who you see. My spirit is weakened and I am in turmoil emotionally. Praise God from whom all blessings flow! I am so grateful that You provided for me Lord. Your email address will not be published. You will be our refuge. Prayed for Courage. , Ive been living vine with a narsacist alcoholic who would s very manipulative and abusive I need to move back up north with m two dogs and have a limited fixed income I have been in this dark spot for 17 years.it has totally changed me Im always panicked and cant sleep Ive wasted my whole life and now Im running out of time to be happy somehow again, I have no family anymore they quit thinking of me as a sibling cause of this man..Please Lord guide me shine a light for me to follow and. Amen. Trust in him and his love for you. They do not deserve to suffer and be treated this way. Remove the tension I am carrying as a result of this abuse. Posted on Published: June 29, 2021- Last updated: December 31, 2022. I pray that You will save me. I pray that You give me the courage, strength, and resources to be able to protect myself, and my kids. No man or woman is worth your life! Heavenly Father, You are Omnipresent, hence You see how violent, bitter, cold and callous my partner is. I ask that you give us a calm and peaceful heart and take away the negative things that have come on us from the abuse. You are one step away from having your prayer submitted to Churches, shrines, prayer groups and prayer chains all around the world. The Holy Spirit has the power to comfort them and deliver them. The Rock and Roll Hall of Fame nominee said that she wanted to get her mother "out of that . do not despise prophetic utterances. God and family are most important to me. I offer you the words from Scripture, Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest (Matthew 11:28, NIV). Please help my dad to stop hurting my mom. Call on God to keep you aware to the concerns of violence and to inspire those in your community to develop a sense of urgency when it comes to the many needs that surround us. I am worthy. We ask you to surround them with Your care and protect them by Your loving might and permit them to enjoy health and healing, wholeness and strength, calmness and peace and love. Lord, whoever said this never had a verbally abusive partner. When we lift up prayers of healing for domestic violence victims, we are praying for survivors and anybody that has ever been affected by domestic violence and abuse. Death God Ive submitted my prayers to you and I await your answer. Abuse can take many forms, not just physical, but mental, verbal and emotional as well. Their anger and punishment loom more significant in my mind than Your power and love for me. As the phrase goes, sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me. Amen. Oh Lord, please do not allow the sinful actions of another person to lead me into sin of my own; sin towards You. He also has the power to heal their wounds, free them from fear and restore them to true health. What is true and accurate? He will not leave or move out! As you may have guessed Im extremely enthusiastic about prayer. Lord, Im full of anger towards this person. Please open my heart to receive healing. Improve Self-Esteem. In Jesus name. Paul writes that God has rescued us from the dominion of darkness and brought us into the kingdom of the Son he loves, in whom we have redemption, the forgiveness of sins. (Colossians 1:13-14), The secular view that we feel better when we forgive is also true, but not for the reason society offers. Jesus said, Love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you (Matthew 5:44). Fill me with new confidence in Your love for me and Your power to help me. God does not want you to submit to either emotional or physical attack as though this is an act of obedience to Him. Please be merciful to me. God, reach into my heart. Jesus, I know this is your will because your will is that we age safe and away from strongholds of the devil therefore I am going to walk in this. As a male, your spouse or partner may: Verbally abuse you, belittle you, or humiliate you in front of friends, colleagues, or family, or on social media. Show me safe places where I can be vulnerable. Dont give up hope sweetheart. I feel just as confused when I think about what to do next. Strengthen me through the power of Jesus Christ. God is not the author of confusion, but of peace. (1 Corinthians 14:33). Please help me feel worthy again. I crave peace, love, and joy again. Loving God, be with all men and women who are in doubt about their intimate relationships. Others cannot see what is really going on in our home. Please help my friend cope with the painful emotions they are feeling. Take refuge in these words from Scripture, For God so loved the world that he gave his one and only Son, that whoever believes in him shall not perish but have eternal life (John 3:16, NIV). If I take steps to make changes, I'm afraid I'll end up with bigger problems than I have now. If youre such a person, these powerful prayers on how to get out of an abusive relationship are for you. In Jesus name. I'm in an abusive relationship and need your strength and guidance. K-LOVE is a 501(c)3 and all donations are tax deductible. Heal their thinking, so that they may turn to You and seek Your ways. Amen. That's a lot of people around the world offering your prayer to God. Whether someone persecutes, abuses, hates or curses us, we are called to pray for them. Let Jesus heal your heart. Our God is a God of love, who is ever caring, ever strong, always present and always just. That living arrangements, finances and divorce will come together on his behalf. Let me recognize behaviors I need to change and give me the courage to make those changes. Please help me to live like that again. I pray for mountains to be moved in Jesus name. In the Mighty Name of Jesus Christ, I have prayed. I want to live a life of joy for you. In Your Name, I pray. Required fields are marked *. Also pray that those being abused to recognize that when they feel dominated, disgraced and even dejected, that they need to stand up and declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper because they are delivered by the blood of Jesus and are children of the Most High God. Amen. Give me the strength to try again. But You see through all the deceit and manipulation when I feel so weak and small. They must come to that conclusion and that decision themselves. I will brighten the darkness before them and smooth out the road ahead of them. Lord, Im losing hope and faith in life, it seems the only way out is death, but I dont want to go down that path. I am constantly abused physically and emotionally, he hurls insults nevermind the fact that I am employed and earning alot more than him. Hence, I beseech You to come to my urgent rescue before it becomes too late. Our Heavenly Father is a source of consolation and hope and by His sons dying and rising, He remains our light in every darkness and our strength in every weakness. Paul wrote this so that Christs followers would embrace the promise, regardless of their circumstances. In Jesus name, I pray. However, sometimes the person you fall in love with doesnt turn out to be who you thought they were. Prayer to Get Out of Domestic Abuse. O Lord, help us to be strong stewards of all You have entrusted to us. If you are being abused and cant see the path forward, cry out to the Lord. Please pray that this marriage will end and I can get my life back. Abusive relationships are dangerous for mental and physical health. 2 Timothy 1:7 For God has not given us a spirit of fear and timidity but of power, love, and self-discipline. I know that You are the savior of all humanity. Get exclusive content, free tickets and new songs! I am mentally drained and feel like I am nothing. Protect my body and heart. Harboring anger, resentment, guilt, and shame as a result of abuse does not punish the abuser but separates the abused person off from the source of ultimate peace, relief, healing, and joy. Remind them of their value and worth. 13. Im so relieved to not be in an abusive relationship anymore. Please pray for healing so I can get this strength in the courage to walk away from this abusive relationship. You know what is in my heart, you know what I want, but, if that is not your will, then please, put me on the right path, Prayer For Protection Through the Precious Blood of Jesus. 1. Remind me of who I am in Your Son, Jesus Christ. I have been waiting for years for God to please remove him from my life. The Christian worldview declares that all people are sinners. If possible, so far as it depends on you, live peaceably with all. I have no parents as they are deceased. She will never miss an opportunity to put me down. I pray you give this person the means they need to leave and I pray you give this person the strength to leave and not look back. I know that this is extremely challenging, I am also in an abusive relationship. Grant us safety from these monsters who willingly lend themselves to the will of the adversary. Please save me. I want to end this severly toxic situation for the benefit of all. I had a brain bleed that burst in my brain 4 times in 2 months due to finding my abusive husband having affairs. Keep Proof of the Abuse. Be of sober spirit, be on the alert. 4. Please hear my prayer and help me find healing. We cannot do it for them. Pray that God will give them the strength to fight back spiritually and that you deliver them and heal them. Prayer to Walk Out of a Violent Relationship. Fill it with love. Give me the courage to learn to love again in due time. Bring the right people that can support me through this time too. When people do not step in to protect me, when the law does not bring justice, I know that You are still on Your throne. Help us by Your Holy Spirit to witness your power in our lives and to know your eternal love. Give me the wisdom to know if I should stay in this relationship or leave. John 8:32. Its important that we pray specifically for the children who have been hurt, abused, neglected, criticized, dominated, betrayed and abandoned. Amen. Thank You for giving me the chance to pray today. Please protect her. I pray that You will open my mind to receiving newer, positive thoughts. All the what if questions are filling my mind. My Father, I need Your help to stop loving and caring about my abusive partner. In Jesus name, Amen. 7. I want him out my life. Then there are the loved ones and onlookers who think leaving the relationship is a simple choice. Dear God, I am embarrassed that I have ended up in a physically abusive relationship. Lord i humbly ask that u give the men and women who r in abbusive relationship,give them the strengh that they need. Give me a way to escape from this hard relationship that has left me physically and mentally stressed and emotionally drained. Remember what is true and stop second-guessing what God has said: You are worth more than many sparrows. (Matthew 10:31), Maybe the abuser will change, and its important to pray for that miracle. In Your Name, I pray. I need Your gracious healing power to help me forgive so that I can close that chapter of my life. he doesnt help at home or with the kids at all. You are strong and mighty and more substantial than my abuser. Its important that we pray for their healing and restoration, turning to the only One who has the power to make all things new. Atone point I thought of taking my life but the thought that I would leave my children motherless changed my mind. Recognize abuse. I fear what my abuser is thinking and planning, but Your plans for me will stand. I really need work so i can be free from this angry abusive person. Let me recognize that forgiveness does not mean inviting further pain, but rather that it invites Your power to heal me. My husband (or wife) is verbally, emotionally, and physically abusing me even in front of our kids.